{"id":6544,"date":"2012-03-24T09:59:00","date_gmt":"2012-03-24T09:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?p=6544"},"modified":"2023-06-29T10:12:32","modified_gmt":"2023-06-29T10:12:32","slug":"dedem-fahri-degirmenci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?p=6544","title":{"rendered":"Dedem Fahri De\u011firmenci"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00dczerimde dedemin \u00e7ok eme\u011fi vard\u0131r. Ankara\u2019da okurken (1972-1976 y\u0131llar\u0131) yan\u0131nda kald\u0131m. Yan\u0131nda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m o g\u00fcnleri ve dedemi unutmad\u0131m ve unutamam. O y\u0131llar, an\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131n silinmez sayfalar\u0131nda kay\u0131tl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Zor y\u0131llard\u0131. Yolda\u015f Ko\u00e7ero kitab\u0131mda k\u0131sa da olsa bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 yazd\u0131m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ev \u00e7ok ufakt\u0131, dahas\u0131 dedemin evi her gelen \u00c7ermiklinin u\u011frak yeriydi. Bu durum ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yordu. Dahas\u0131 nenem s\u00fcrekli hastayd\u0131. Ben ve dedem s\u00fcrekli nenemle ilgilenmek zorunda kal\u0131yorduk, ev i\u015flerini birlikte yap\u0131yorduk. Nenemin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle evdeki t\u00fcm i\u015fleri dedem yap\u0131yordu diyebilirim. Dedem, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma dinine inanan ger\u00e7ek bir proleterdi. Bir kazan fabrikas\u0131nda gece bek\u00e7ili\u011fi yap\u0131yordu. Gece benim yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m yatakta, g\u00fcnd\u00fcz o yat\u0131yordu. Bana, zaman zaman ev i\u015flerini kastederek: \u201cHer \u015feyi \u00f6\u011fren. \u0130yi g\u00fcnde vard\u0131r, k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnde. Yemek yapmas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r y\u0131kamas\u0131n\u0131, yama yapmas\u0131n\u0131, her \u015feyi \u00f6\u011fren. \u00d6\u011frenmenin hi\u00e7 zarar\u0131 olmaz, faydas\u0131 olur. Bunlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fin zaman hi\u00e7 kimseye minnet etmesin. Gerekirse kar\u0131ya bile\u2026\u201d derdi hep. Dedemin bu \u00f6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcn\u00fcn faydas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00f6rd\u00fcm, \u00f6zellikle cezaevinde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 g\u00fcnler arkada\u015flar\u0131mla bulu\u015fur onlarda kal\u0131rd\u0131m. Telefon olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in dedeme ya da neneme haber vermezdim veya belki haber vermeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemiyordum. Eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde \u015eevkiye nenem \u00e7ok k\u0131zard\u0131 benim bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ma. \u201cYine kay\u0131p oldun. Nerelerdeydin? Ba\u015f\u0131na bir i\u015f gelse seni nerede, nas\u0131l bulaca\u011f\u0131z? Seni y\u0131lan yemi\u015f hekim bile bulamaz\u201d deyip f\u0131r\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 atard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ermik\u2019i hep sevmi\u015fimdir. Bu \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumla alakal\u0131 olmal\u0131, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumda \u00c7ermik\u2019e dedemin yan\u0131na \u00e7ok giderdim. Her gitti\u011fimde dedem \u00e7o\u011funlukla culfa tezg\u00e2h\u0131nda bez dokurdu. Dedemi, dedemin dokuma tezg\u00e2h\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131ndaki oturu\u015funu, omzunda hep as\u0131l\u0131 duran mahrama denilen b\u00fcy\u00fck mendiliyle terini sili\u015fini, Hekal Da\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde ip yumaklar\u0131n\u0131 \u015firezlemesi ve \u00e7ezme \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00d6mer day\u0131mla ona yard\u0131m edi\u015fimizi unutmad\u0131m. Dedem iyi bir culfac\u0131yd\u0131. Dokudu\u011fu culfa bezlerini Ergani\u2019ye e\u015fekle getirip Meydan\u2019da satard\u0131. Ayn\u0131 zamanda e\u015fekle nakliyecilik yapard\u0131. Sadece dokuma bezi de\u011fil, k\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ko\u015fullar uygun oldu\u011funda pirin\u00e7, kuru fasulye, kuru \u00fcz\u00fcm; yazlar\u0131 ise biber, patl\u0131can, domates, ye\u015fil fasulye getirip satard\u0131. D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fte de sabun, \u015feker gibi temel ihtiya\u00e7 maddelerini g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc. Dedemle birlikte e\u015fekle bende birka\u00e7 kez Ergani\u2019den \u00c7ermik\u2019e (35 km.\u2019lik yolu) gidip gelmi\u015fli\u011fim olmu\u015ftur.\u201d
Fahri (Faho) dedemi, \u015eevkiye nenemi, Niyaz\u0131 ve Veyis day\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 rahmet ve \u015f\u00fckranla an\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Dedem Fahri De\u011firmenci-Annemin day\u0131lar\u0131 Cemal ve Muharrem S\u00fcmb\u00fcl<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Faho dedemle ilgili day\u0131m Nurettin De\u011firmenci\u2019den bir yaz\u0131 rica ettim. Sa\u011f olsun 24 Mart 2012 g\u00fcn\u00fc e-postayla g\u00f6nderdi. G\u00f6nderdi\u011fi yaz\u0131y\u0131 aynen sunuyorum:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBABAM FAHR\u0130 DE\u011e\u0130RMENC\u0130<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan zorluklar ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fckse, bunlar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden gelmek de o kadar gurur vericidir.\u201d (Epiktetos)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u00f6ks\u00fcz kal\u0131r ve olduk\u00e7a zor ko\u015fullarda ya\u015far. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemde okula gitmesi, okula gitmeyi hayal etmesi olanak d\u0131\u015f\u0131yd\u0131. Kendi de\u011firmenlerinde art\u0131klar\u0131 toplayarak ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kendinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015fi zorluklara katlanamaz ve \u00f6l\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esas\u0131nda, babam, o y\u0131llar\u0131n yoksul T\u00fcrkiye\u2019sinde s\u00fcrekli yokluklar i\u00e7inde ya\u015far. 1910\u2019lu, 1920\u2019li, 1930\u2019lu, 1940\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p didinerek kendi ve ailesinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kendisine binlerce te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam, yokluk y\u0131llar\u0131nda verdi\u011fi ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesini bizlere anlat\u0131r ve ara s\u0131ra o y\u0131llara geri d\u00f6nerdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1950\u2019lili y\u0131llarda bile T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin genel durumu k\u00f6t\u00fcyd\u00fc. Kelkit\u2019ten bir grup yurtta\u015f\u0131n, cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131, ba\u015fbakan ve G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fhane milletvekillerine \u00e7ekti\u011fi bir telgraf bu durumu \u00e7ok net sergiler:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cVilayet, G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fhane; kazas\u0131, Kelkit; durumumuz:
Kaymakam, yok; Doktor: yok; askerlik \u015fubesi ba\u015fkan\u0131: yok; yarg\u0131\u00e7: yok; mal m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc: yok; \u00f6zel idare m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc: yok; tapu sicil m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc: yok; ortaokul m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc: yok; PTT m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc: yok. \u0130\u015fte biz b\u00f6yle bir kazada Devleti Ali\u2019nin yurtta\u015flar\u0131 olarak huzur ve g\u00fcven i\u00e7inde ya\u015f\u0131yoruz!\u201d (31-1-1952)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1960\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llarda, Avrupa\u2019n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fik katk\u0131lar\u0131 ile T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de bilgi, beceri, ara\u00e7-gere\u00e7 birikimi artar, \u00fcretim \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131r, yoksulluklar azal\u0131r. \u00dcretim art\u0131\u015f\u0131 ile orant\u0131l\u0131 demokrasi geni\u015fler. Babam, 1960\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llarda ticaret ile varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyordu. 1970\u2019li y\u0131llarda Ankara\u2019ya yerle\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam, evime geldi\u011finde do\u011fruca k\u00fct\u00fcphane odas\u0131na ge\u00e7er, oraya yerle\u015fir ve hayranl\u0131kla kitaplara bakard\u0131. Ender olarak salonda otururdu. Kitaplar\u0131 izlemekten b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluk duyard\u0131. Ben bilgisayar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7ti\u011fimde, \u201cO\u011flum bu kitaplar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 ba\u015fka dillerde yaz\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r; de\u011fil mi?\u201d diye, sorar ve ona gerekli cevaplar\u0131 verirdim. Sonra, \u201cOkuma-yazma bilmeyen insanlar k\u00f6r say\u0131l\u0131r. Ben okuyamad\u0131m. \u00dcst\u00fcne \u00fcstl\u00fck ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n bask\u0131s\u0131 ile b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131 da okula g\u00f6ndermedim. Ne kadar cahil davranm\u0131\u015f\u0131m!\u201d diyerek, hay\u0131flan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babama d\u00f6ner, \u201cBaba o ko\u015fullarda \u00f6yle yapman gerekmi\u015f. Sizin ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hepsi okuma-yazma bilmiyordu. Art\u0131k ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llara \u00fcz\u00fclmek de\u011fil, onlardan ders \u00e7\u0131karmak gerekir. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyiz\u2026\u201d derdim. Bunun \u00fczerine, \u201cDo\u011fru!\u201d der ve y\u00fcksek tahsilli, \u00f6\u011fretmen, okuyan torunlar\u0131n\u0131 ve torunlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 saymaya ba\u015flard\u0131. Sayd\u0131k\u00e7a y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki mutluluklar artard\u0131. Bu arada kendisine su ya da ba\u015fka i\u00e7ecek sunard\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sibirya\u2019dan d\u00f6nen bir Rus yazara, \u201cSibirya\u2019da en \u00e7ok kimleri ya da neleri \u00f6zlediniz?\u201d diye sorarlar. Yazar, \u201cAh! O kitaplar\u0131m\u0131n kokusu var ya; hi\u00e7 burnumdan gitmedi. O kokular\u0131 tekrar i\u00e7ime \u00e7ekece\u011fim g\u00fcnleri bekliyorum,\u201d der.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam, kitap okuyamad\u0131, mektup yazamad\u0131 ama kitaplara olan sayg\u0131s\u0131 ve sevgisi ya\u015f\u0131 ilerledik\u00e7e artt\u0131. \u201cO\u011flum, bu kitaplarda de\u011fi\u015fik konular yaz\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r; de\u011fil mi?\u201d diye, tekrar sorar ve ona g\u00fclerek cevap verirdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evimde yakla\u015f\u0131k 5000 kitap vard\u0131r. Babam, bir g\u00fcn olsun kitaplara \u00f6dedi\u011fim paralar\u0131 sormad\u0131. Sadece, \u201cBu kitaplar\u0131 biriktirmek kolay olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u201d derdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYabanc\u0131 dillerde yaz\u0131lan kitaplarda ba\u015fka bilgiler mi var?\u201d diye, sorgulama yapard\u0131. Ya da, \u201cD\u00fcnya\u2019da ne kadar de\u011fi\u015fik kitaplar vard\u0131r; Allah bilir!\u201d diyerek, hayal kurard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir g\u00fcn kendisi ile sohbet ederken, \u201cBaba, ilerdeki y\u0131llarda torunlar\u0131n, torunlar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 da kitaplar yazacakt\u0131r\u201d derdim. O, \u201cE\u011fer gayret eder, yeterli miktarda okurlarsa yazabilirler\u201d derdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan mutluluk duyan, tembellikten nefret eden biriydi. \u00c7ok konu\u015fan insanlardan ho\u015flanmaz ve sessiz kalmay\u0131 tercih ederdi. Ya da ac\u0131 ger\u00e7ekleri s\u00f6ylemekten \u00e7ekinmezdi. Babam\u0131n baz\u0131 s\u00f6zleri dinleyenleri incitirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc: \u201cTamam\u0131yla do\u011fru olsa da sert s\u00f6z insan\u0131 incitir.\u201d (Sophokles)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam\u0131n, do\u011fum tarihini tam olarak bilmiyorum. Ancak, 1910 civar\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gerekir. Ermeni \u201cOlaylar\u0131\u201d ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylerdi. Ancak, Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019da Ermeni \u201cOlaylar\u0131\u201d 1913 y\u0131llar\u0131nda ba\u015flar. Buna g\u00f6re babam 1907 y\u0131l\u0131nda do\u011fmu\u015f olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam ge\u00e7mi\u015fini hep hat\u0131rlad\u0131; \u00f6zellikle, a\u00e7l\u0131k \u00e7ekti\u011fi y\u0131llar\u0131 hi\u00e7 unutmad\u0131. Ekme\u011fe olan sayg\u0131s\u0131, \u00e7ekti\u011fi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lardand\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paran\u0131n de\u011feri, zorunlu ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 temin esnas\u0131nda belli olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam paraya \u00f6nem verir ama asla para i\u00e7in de\u011ferlerini ayaklar alt\u0131na almazd\u0131. \u00d6rne\u011fin, para i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6ylemezdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 yoksulluk \u00e7ekenler, bencil olurlar. Babam a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 yoksulluk \u00e7ekmesine kar\u015f\u0131n bencil de\u011fil, toplumcuydu. Rahatl\u0131kla kendini ailesine feda ederdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babam, ya\u015famdan ders \u00e7\u0131karan, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 belle\u011fine kaz\u0131yan bir insand\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anama ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrekli ve kesintisizdi. Anam hasta oldu\u011funda, babam b\u00fct\u00fcn i\u015flerini terk eder, onunla ilgilenirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cS\u00fcrekli olarak \u00f6\u00e7 almay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir kimsenin yaras\u0131, kapanaca\u011f\u0131na, daha da b\u00fcy\u00fcr.\u201d (F. Bacon) Babam, de\u011fi\u015fik ac\u0131lara katland\u0131, yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n kan davalar\u0131nda \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fc ama \u00f6\u00e7 al\u0131c\u0131 olmad\u0131. Evde, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc olaylardan uzak tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00d6zellikle, evde, \u00f6fkeleri kabartacak konu\u015fmalara izin vermedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adalet, dengedir. Babam, adaleti savunan ve uygulayan bir insand\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131 torunlar\u0131na \u00f6rnek olsun!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nurettin De\u011firmenci
Elk. Y\u00fck. M\u00fch.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yay\u0131m:
M\u00fcsl\u00fcm \u00dcz\u00fclmez, Yaz\u0131l\u0131 Kaynaklarda \u00c7ERM\u0130K<\/strong>, Kent I\u015f\u0131klar\u0131, \u0130stanbul, 2012, s.225-228<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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cemal ve muharrem s\u00fcmb\u00fcl<\/a>, <\/span>fahri (faho) dedem<\/a>, <\/span>fahri de\u011firmenci<\/a>, <\/span>niyaz\u0131 ve veyis day\u0131lar\u0131m<\/a>, <\/span>nurettin de\u011firmenci<\/a>, <\/span>\u015fevkiye nenem<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00dczerimde dedemin \u00e7ok eme\u011fi vard\u0131r. Ankara\u2019da okurken (1972-1976 y\u0131llar\u0131) yan\u0131nda kald\u0131m. Yan\u0131nda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m o g\u00fcnleri ve dedemi unutmad\u0131m ve unutamam. O y\u0131llar, an\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131n silinmez sayfalar\u0131nda kay\u0131tl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Zor y\u0131llard\u0131. Yolda\u015f Ko\u00e7ero kitab\u0131mda k\u0131sa da olsa bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 yazd\u0131m: \u201cKald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ev \u00e7ok ufakt\u0131, dahas\u0131 dedemin evi her gelen \u00c7ermiklinin u\u011frak yeriydi. Bu durum ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yordu. Dahas\u0131 nenem s\u00fcrekli hastayd\u0131. Ben ve dedem s\u00fcrekli nenemle ilgilenmek zorunda kal\u0131yorduk, ev i\u015flerini birlikte yap\u0131yorduk. Nenemin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle evdeki t\u00fcm i\u015fleri dedem yap\u0131yordu diyebilirim. Dedem, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma dinine inanan ger\u00e7ek bir proleterdi. Bir kazan fabrikas\u0131nda gece bek\u00e7ili\u011fi yap\u0131yordu. Gece benim yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m yatakta, g\u00fcnd\u00fcz o yat\u0131yordu. Bana,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1197],"tags":[4696,4699,451,4698,298,4697],"class_list":["post-6544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kultur","tag-cemal-ve-muharrem-sumbul","tag-fahri-faho-dedem","tag-fahri-degirmenci","tag-niyazi-ve-veyis-dayilarim","tag-nurettin-degirmenci","tag-sevkiye-nenem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6544","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6544"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6544\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6546,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6544\/revisions\/6546"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}