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Bu hafta, Hayri \u00c7akmak’\u0131n g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi “Bir G\u00fcn Mutlaka<\/em><\/strong>” yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sunmak istiyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Bir G\u00fcn Mutlaka<\/em><\/strong>“, umudunu t\u00fcketmeyenlerin hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ve inanma arzusunu en iyi dile getiren bir ifadedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nanma arzusu, insanlarda en derin arzu t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130nsanlar, bir g\u00fcn her \u015feyin “mutlaka<\/em>” daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131na inanmak ister. Bu arzu, insanlar\u0131 zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda, imk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131klar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ayakta tutar. Bu, insan\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda olan bir \u015feydir. \u0130radeye ba\u011fl\u0131 eylemler, davran\u0131\u015flar, arzu, niyet ve ama\u00e7lar kontrol alt\u0131nda tutabilir, ama inanmadan edemez insan. Tanr\u0131ya, anaya, babaya, \u00f6\u011fretmene, imama, komutana, partiye, lidere, adalete, hukuka, devrime, dosta, arkada\u015fa, sevgiliye… inan\u0131r veya en az\u0131ndan inanmak ister. Bu nedenle olacak ki, La Fontaine; “Herkes korktu\u011funa ve arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00e7ok kolay inan\u0131r<\/em>” der. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc belirsizlik, ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilememe, ku\u015fku insan\u0131 rahats\u0131z eder. Oysa bilmek ve inanmak, insana \u00f6zg\u00fcveni artt\u0131ran pozitif bir enerji verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir de herkesin inand\u0131\u011f\u0131na inanma vard\u0131r. Hayri \u00c7akmak, b\u00f6ylelerinden de\u011fil; onunki, “b\u00fcy\u00fck heyecanlar veren<\/em>” bir a\u015fka inanmad\u0131r. Her \u015feyin, “bir g\u00fcn mutlaka<\/em>” iyi olaca\u011f\u0131na inanmad\u0131r: Gelece\u011fe y\u00f6neliktir. \u0130yi olan \u015feylerin, g\u00fczelin bekleyi\u015fidir. O, sevdal\u0131lar\u0131n bulu\u015faca\u011f\u0131, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bayram olarak kutlanaca\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc, k\u0131rlang\u0131c\u0131n kanad\u0131nda bahar\u0131n m\u00fcjdesini beklemektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bilgi, ac\u0131 ve mutluluk sessizdir. Hayri’nin \u015fiir ve yaz\u0131lar\u0131 ise, sessiz bir \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ben, “Bir G\u00fcn Mutlaka<\/em><\/strong>“y\u0131 severek okudum. Sizlerin de sevece\u011finizi umuyorum. \u0130\u015fte:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBir G\u00fcn Mutlaka<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Her canl\u0131n\u0131n kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc hayata tutunma nedenleri vard\u0131r, bilirsiniz. Tohumlar topra\u011fa tutunur, ba\u015faklar dala, g\u00f6vde k\u00f6klere tutunur… insan, insana ve g\u00fczel olan her \u015feye (ge\u00e7mi\u015fe, gelece\u011fe, bilinmezli\u011fe)…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her insan\u0131n ve ya\u015f\u0131n kendine g\u00f6re hayata tutunma, as\u0131lma nedenleri vard\u0131r, bilirsiniz. Bebe iken \u00e7ocuk olmak i\u00e7in didinip durursunuz, annenize tutunursunuz, annenizin ak memesine… Bir an \u00f6nce b\u00fcy\u00fcmek, duvarlar\u0131 a\u015f\u0131p arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla parklarda oyunlar oynamak istersiniz. T\u00fcm oyunlarda (hayatlarda) oynamak i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz belki de… Anne ve baban\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fcmeseniz, her zaman \u00e7ocuk kalsan\u0131z da, kendinize b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz, sadece…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Y\u0131llarca y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz yollar, oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sokaklar, t\u0131rmand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z a\u011fa\u00e7lar, o uzak kendinize. Ve yaln\u0131z kasabalar s\u0131kar sizi, dar gelir kalp at\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za. Yollar uzamaz. Sokaklar, kasabalar b\u00fcy\u00fcmez, sadece siz b\u00fcy\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Dar gelir giydi\u011finiz elbiseler, oturdu\u011funuz evler, oyunlar… b\u00fcy\u00fcmek isterseniz. An be an b\u00fcy\u00fcrken, t\u00fcketirken \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc, \u00f6l\u00fcme daha yak\u0131n olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bile bile b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz. Kocaman bir bilinmezlik vard\u0131r belki de b\u00fcy\u00fcme-k arzunuzda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e bug\u00fcn sahip olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her \u015feyin sahibi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz… b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz. B\u00fcy\u00fck bir sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131kla durmaks\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcmek isterseniz Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcmeyle olan sava\u015ftan kald\u0131rmadan, b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz. Yorulduktan, yeterince yenildikten sonra b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc fark edersiniz ans\u0131z\u0131n. Elbiseler sarmaz sizi, teniniz dar gelir \u00e7abucak b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bedeninize. G\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e iyiden iyiye fark edersiniz cinsel kimli\u011finizi. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yer dar gelir, bo\u011fulur gibi olursunuz, b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz. “Ten, insan\u0131n ihanetidir” der M. Mungan, zaman ad\u0131m ad\u0131m, sinsi sinsi g\u00f6lgeler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr mahcup teninize. Sivilceler olu\u015fur esmer, kumral, beyaz y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fczde. Ya bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z oluvermi\u015fsiniz, yada esmer bir o\u011flan…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her canl\u0131n\u0131n kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc hayata tutunma nedenleri vard\u0131r, bilirsiniz\u2026 Gen\u00e7siniz, yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 ya da g\u00fczelsiniz, beyninizle, bedeninizle, t\u00fcm benli\u011finizle. Gen\u00e7siniz, mevsimlerden en \u00e7ok bahara benzersiniz\u2026 Kavak yelleri eser ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda, r\u00fczgarlar yurt arar sanki y\u00fcrek at\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda, damarlar\u0131n\u0131zda. Rengarenk \u00e7i\u00e7ekler a\u00e7ar \u0131\u015f\u0131k y\u00fckl\u00fc y\u00fczlerinizde, g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015flerinizde, aniden a\u00e7\u0131veren \u00e7a\u011fla \u00e7i\u00e7eklerine benzersiniz. Ne\u015fe, h\u00fcz\u00fcn, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, karars\u0131zl\u0131k, \u00e7aresizlik, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, endi\u015fe vb. duygular aras\u0131nda debelenip durursunuz bir parya gibi. Durmadan de\u011fi\u015fen farkl\u0131 duygular\u0131n mihrab\u0131na d\u00f6nersiniz apans\u0131z. Bilmedi\u011finiz bir \u00e7ok \u015fey birdenbire girer naif hayat\u0131n\u0131za, yeni insanlar, duygular, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, ili\u015fkiler\u2026 Onca yeni \u015feyle bir anda tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n verdi\u011fi bir endi\u015fe ve tela\u015f vard\u0131r i\u00e7inizde, yorularak b\u00fcy\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Kad\u0131nlar y\u00fcze ve bedene ra\u011fbet eder” der Stendhal. G\u00fczel bir y\u00fcz\u00fcn, sa\u00e7lar\u0131n, g\u00f6zlerin, bedenin b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fcne kap\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 \u00c7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131r durur \u00e7ocuk y\u00fcre\u011finiz yaral\u0131 bir ku\u015f gibi, bir huzursuzluk ba\u015flar i\u00e7inizde, apans\u0131z yerden kesilir ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 A\u015fkt\u0131r ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yerden kesen. Ona ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in b\u00fct\u00fcn yollar\u0131 denersiniz. Kitap okur, sinemaya, tiyatroya gider, en olmad\u0131k yerlerde bulunur, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131mak, anlamak iste\u011fi ile dolars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bildi\u011finiz, bilmedi\u011finiz en g\u00fczel yerlere ona gitmek i\u00e7in gidersiniz, onunla y\u00fcrek y\u00fcre\u011fe. Hayata tutunma gerek\u00e7eleriniz siz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fcr, \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131r, de\u011fi\u015fir\u2026 Bir gerek\u00e7e daha eklersiniz hayat\u0131n\u0131za. “A\u015fk” i\u00e7in, bir ki\u015filik yer a\u00e7ars\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn gayri “resmi a\u015fk ge\u00e7idinde”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Durmadan b\u00fcy\u00fcmek istersiniz her yengi ve yenilginizde, her yenilgide kurban edersiniz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc. Gen\u00e7siniz, yeni ad\u0131mlara bilenirsiniz. \u0130lk at\u0131\u015flarda \u0131skalars\u0131n\u0131z; acemisiniz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. “Bir kez \u0131skalarsan\u0131z, her zaman \u0131skalars\u0131n\u0131z” der A. Altan, \u0131skalars\u0131n\u0131z. Size anlams\u0131z gelen bir\u00e7ok \u015feyden korkulardan, endi\u015felerden “a\u015fk”\u0131 \u0131skalars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Y\u00fckselen sular\u0131n \u00e7ekilmesini beklersiniz, kanayan, a\u011fr\u0131yan bir yerler arars\u0131n\u0131z bedeninizde. Durmadan, dinlenmeden yar-a-lar arars\u0131n\u0131z bedeninizde. Sular, \u00e7ekilir, ac\u0131lar diner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yeni bir g\u00fcne, y\u00fcze, y\u00fcre\u011fe d\u00f6nersiniz g\u00fcnebakanlar gibi, bilenirsiniz. T\u00fcm yollar\u0131 dener, her \u015feyden vazge\u00e7ersiniz sevmek, sevilmek, ona varmak i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Terli y\u00fcrek k\u00fcreklerinizi masmavi bir denizde a\u015fka do\u011fru \u00e7ekersiniz bir daha. Sevmek, sevilmek i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131p durursunuz, i\u00e7inizde bir korku, bin endi\u015fe. Ya \u0131skalarsan\u0131z..! Ya hep \u0131skalarsan\u0131z. Y\u00fcre\u011finiz bir orman gibi ye\u015fil, bedeniniz gergin ipte y\u00fcr\u00fcyen bir cambaz\u0131n ayaklar\u0131 gibi gergin. Bu kez olacak, olmal\u0131 dersiniz kendinize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fcn gelir, i\u015fler yoluna girer gibi olur. Y\u00fckselir kalp at\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131p durursunuz al\u0131c\u0131 bir ku\u015f gibi. Pen\u00e7eleriniz kanat\u0131r i\u00e7inizi. Peri masallar\u0131ndaki kahramanlar gibi k\u0131sa bir zaman diliminde b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluklar eklersiniz \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcze. A\u015fk i\u00e7in y\u0131llarca \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p biriktirdiklerinizi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir savurganl\u0131kla, sigara da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r gibi pervas\u0131zca da\u011f\u0131t\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ona yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in sahip oldu\u011funuz her \u015feyi bir anda ona vermek istersiniz. B\u00fct\u00fcn hikayelerinizi, \u015fiirlerinizi, esprilerinizi, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 t\u00fcketirsiniz. Yo\u011funlu\u011funuz, yorgunlu\u011funuz a\u011f\u0131r gelmeye ba\u015flar, korkutur onu. O b\u00fcy\u00fck sevdan\u0131z, a\u011f\u0131r gelir o nazl\u0131 y\u00fcre\u011fe. Korkutur onu a\u015fk\u0131 ya\u015fat\u0131p, ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in dal\u0131p gitmeleriniz, korkutur y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fczdeki par\u00e7al\u0131 bulutlu hava raporu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc. \u0130\u00e7inizde ise an be an onu kaybetme korkusu\u2026 Korkular depre\u015fir. A\u015fk “verimsiz y\u00fcreklerde bitmez” der bir \u015fair. Herkes a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131, sevincini, kederini, kendini ta\u015f\u0131r gitti\u011fi yere, siz korkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yetmezliklerinizi. Ayr\u0131l\u0131klarla ba\u011flan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayatlara. Kaybolup, kopars\u0131n\u0131z. A\u015fk iki etaptan olu\u015fan, ve her etab\u0131 en az \u00f6teki kadar \u00f6nemli bir ko\u015fudur. A\u015fka ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7aba, t\u00fcketti\u011finiz cephane a\u015fk\u0131 ya\u015fatmaya yetmez oysa. Y\u0131llar boyunca yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z a\u015fka gitme provalar\u0131, a\u015fk\u0131 \u0131skalamak i\u00e7in yapm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z sanki. Oysa a\u015fk apans\u0131z, \u00e7\u0131r\u0131l\u00e7\u0131plak yakalanmakt\u0131r biraz da. Provalar, a\u015fka giden yollar\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rsa da, a\u015fk\u0131n kendisini kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmaz, derinle\u015ftirir, g\u00fc\u00e7le\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her ya\u015f\u0131n hayata tutunma gerek\u00e7eleri vard\u0131r, bilirsiniz. Siz b\u00fct\u00fcn ac\u0131lara, ayr\u0131l\u0131klara, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131na, yorgunluklara ra\u011fmen yine de umutla, gitmesini hi\u00e7 istemedi\u011finiz gen\u00e7li\u011finizle, ba\u011flan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z devasa hayata. Bu kez a\u015fkla gitmekten \u00e7ok, a\u015fk\u0131 yakalamaya, ya\u015famaya ayarlars\u0131n\u0131z y\u00fcrek at\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131…<\/p>\n\n\n\n 13 Temmuz 2007 <\/p>\n\n\n Bu hafta, Hayri \u00c7akmak’\u0131n g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi “Bir G\u00fcn Mutlaka” yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sunmak istiyorum. “Bir G\u00fcn Mutlaka“, umudunu t\u00fcketmeyenlerin hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ve inanma arzusunu en iyi dile getiren bir ifadedir. \u0130nanma arzusu, insanlarda en derin arzu t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130nsanlar, bir g\u00fcn her \u015feyin “mutlaka” daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131na inanmak ister. Bu arzu, insanlar\u0131 zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda, imk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131klar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ayakta tutar. Bu, insan\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda olan bir \u015feydir. \u0130radeye ba\u011fl\u0131 eylemler, davran\u0131\u015flar, arzu, niyet ve ama\u00e7lar kontrol alt\u0131nda tutabilir, ama inanmadan edemez insan. Tanr\u0131ya, anaya, babaya, \u00f6\u011fretmene, imama, komutana, partiye, lidere, adalete, hukuka, devrime, dosta, arkada\u015fa, sevgiliye… inan\u0131r veya en az\u0131ndan inanmak ister. Bu nedenle olacak ki, La Fontaine;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1197],"tags":[389,4540,4091,4542,4541],"class_list":["post-6451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kultur","tag-ask","tag-bir-gun-mutlaka","tag-hayri-cakmak","tag-m-mungan","tag-stendhal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6451","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6451"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6451\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6452,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6451\/revisions\/6452"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6451"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6451"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6451"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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