{"id":5707,"date":"2021-04-08T10:53:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-08T10:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?p=5707"},"modified":"2024-11-29T17:55:20","modified_gmt":"2024-11-29T17:55:20","slug":"babam-cuma-uzulmez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?p=5707","title":{"rendered":"Babam Cuma \u00dcz\u00fclmez"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Mehmet Yakut\u2019la Bir Yaz\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevgili A\u011fabey,<br>Yaz\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00fczel olmu\u015f. Ellerine sa\u011fl\u0131k. Ben rahmetli baban\u0131 ho\u015f sohbet biri olarak tan\u0131d\u0131m. Size misafir olarak her gidi\u015fimde mutlaka hal hat\u0131r sorar, sohbet ederdi.<br>Kendisine \u015e\u00eax Cuma denildi\u011fini, Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131 tersten okudu\u011funu, dar\u0131\u2019ya okuyup dar\u0131y\u0131 duvara t\u0131rmand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, dinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyenler vard\u0131. Acaba neden kendisine \u015e\u00eax Cuma deniliyordu? Yaz\u0131da bu konuda tam bir a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k yok. Bu konuya da a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k getirebilirsen fena olmaz diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<br>Ruhu \u015fad olsun.<br>Selamlar.  Sayg\u0131lar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Mehmet Yakut<br>08 Nisan 2021<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevgili Mehmet,<br>Yaz\u0131m\u0131 be\u011fenmene sevindim.<br>Babama dinden \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f demelerinin nedeni, o g\u00fcn\u00fcn ko\u015fullar\u0131nda Ergani&#8217;de dini konulara ve dini felsefeye \u00e7ok iyi vak\u0131f olmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n dini vecibeleri yerine getirmemesi nedeniyle olmal\u0131, kan\u0131mca. Hac\u0131, hoca ile de \u00e7ok fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp kalmazd\u0131. Bazen onlar kendileri yan\u0131na gelirdi, bir \u015feyler sorard\u0131lar, babam da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerini anlat\u0131rd\u0131, bazen de onlar\u0131 ele\u015ftirirdi. K\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda: Dinsiz olman\u0131n iki yolu vard\u0131r, biri dini \u00e7ok iyi bilmektir, ikincisi ise dinsizli\u011fi derdi. Ayr\u0131ca kumar oynar, i\u00e7ki i\u00e7erdi. Bir Kur&#8217;an&#8217;\u0131 haf\u0131z nas\u0131l i\u00e7ki i\u00e7er, kumar oynar \u00e7ok insan\u0131n akl\u0131 alm\u0131yordu. Tabi bir de -biliyorsun- kasaba ya\u015fam\u0131nda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k denen \u015fey vard\u0131r, karalamak i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle s\u00f6yleyenlerde vard\u0131.<br>Babam\u0131n okuyarak dar\u0131y\u0131 duvarda gezdirdi\u011fine \u015fahit olmad\u0131m. Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131 tersten okuyordu denilmesini ise iki t\u00fcrl\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek laz\u0131m. Burada \u201ctersten okuma\u201dn\u0131n ikili bir anlam\u0131 var bence. Birincisi, o kadar \u00e7ok Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131 biliyordu ki, tersten bile onu okuyabiliyordu. \u0130kincisi ise, \u201ctersten okuyordu\u201d ile Kur\u2019an\u2019dan okuduklar\u0131n\u0131n z\u0131dd\u0131n\u0131 anl\u0131yordu ya da yap\u0131yordu.<br>Ona \u015eex demelerinin nedeni ise, dini bilgilere vak\u0131f olman\u0131n yan\u0131nda, bence baz\u0131 arkada\u015flar\u0131yla bir araya gelerek zikir etmeleri, ilahi ve \u011fazel s\u00f6ylemelerinden kaynaklan\u0131yor. Bu bir araya gelmelerde bazen i\u00e7ki i\u00e7erek \u011fazel ve ilahilerini s\u00f6ylerlerdi. Kendisine \u015fex\u0131m diyen arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan hat\u0131rlad\u0131klar\u0131m: Cemekli Abbas, Bozo Kemal ve \u00c7ulcu Fetli (O\u011fullar\u0131 Abdullah Ayd\u0131n ve Veysi tan\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n?). Tasavvufi bir anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. Ayr\u0131ca, \u00e7ok arzu etmemesine ra\u011fmen bazen hat\u0131r g\u00f6n\u00fcl i\u00e7in, tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131n ricas\u0131 \u00fczerine baz\u0131 hastalara dualar okuyarak, muska yaparak \u015fifa vermede yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan kaynaklan\u0131yor bu \u015eexl\u0131\u011f\u0131.<br>Babam, biz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 severdi. Seni de \u00e7ok severdi: Hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 gibi severdi hem de. Morali iyi oldu\u011funda sohbeti g\u00fczel olurdu, Senin an\u0131lar\u0131nda da yer almas\u0131 benim a\u00e7\u0131mdan g\u00fczel bir olay. Sadece babam de\u011fil, anam da arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 severdi. Kar\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 doyurmadan b\u0131rakmazd\u0131 kimseyi. \u00c7ay, ayran ne varsa mutlaka ikram ederdi. Fazla uzatmayay\u0131m, zaten sen bunlar\u0131 biliyorsun.<br>Yaz\u0131da \u015eexlik olay\u0131na yer vermem yeri de\u011fil diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Konu: Kumar. Yaz\u0131da kumar\u0131n g\u00f6lgede kalmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyorum. Bir ikincisi, makale format\u0131nda yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in yaz\u0131lar\u0131n fazla uzun olmas\u0131 yay\u0131nlanmas\u0131nda sorun \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor. \u015eexl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fka bir yaz\u0131 anlat\u0131r\u0131z, merak etme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not: Babam bizleri ve devrimcileri severdi. Ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemize kat\u0131lmazd\u0131. Bu konularda kimseyle de tart\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131. Unutmam: Bir g\u00fcn bir sohbetimizde Bulgaristan, Romanya ve SSCB&#8217;nin sosyalist olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00fc\u00e7k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t\u00e7\u0131 kurnaz k\u00f6yl\u00fcler oldu\u011funu; en iyi sosyalist \u00fclkelerin Hollanda, \u0130sve\u00e7 gibi Kuzey \u0130skandinav \u00fclkeleri oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti. Geriye bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda benim g\u00f6remedi\u011fim bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi kendisinin g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<br>Sana ve t\u00fcm sevdiklerine kalbi selamlar\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6nderiyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>M\u00fcsl\u00fcm Aben<br>08 Nisan 2021<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>A\u00e7\u0131klama:<\/strong><br>Yaz\u0131\u015fmada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen yaz\u0131m <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?p=4063\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"4063\">Kumar, Dostoyevski ve Babam<\/a><em> <\/em><em>ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131md\u0131r. \u2013M. \u00dcz\u00fclmez<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"taxonomy-post_tag wp-block-post-terms\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?tag=cuma-uzulmez\" rel=\"tag\">cuma \u00fcz\u00fclmez<\/a><span class=\"wp-block-post-terms__separator\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?tag=kumar\" rel=\"tag\">kumar<\/a><span class=\"wp-block-post-terms__separator\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?tag=kuran\" rel=\"tag\">kur\u2019an<\/a><span class=\"wp-block-post-terms__separator\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?tag=mehmet-yakut\" rel=\"tag\">mehmet yakut<\/a><span class=\"wp-block-post-terms__separator\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?tag=sex-cuma\" rel=\"tag\">\u015f\u00eax cuma<\/a><span class=\"wp-block-post-terms__separator\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/?tag=yazisma\" rel=\"tag\">yaz\u0131\u015fma<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mehmet Yakut\u2019la Bir Yaz\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z Sevgili A\u011fabey,Yaz\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00fczel olmu\u015f. Ellerine sa\u011fl\u0131k. Ben rahmetli baban\u0131 ho\u015f sohbet biri olarak tan\u0131d\u0131m. Size misafir olarak her gidi\u015fimde mutlaka hal hat\u0131r sorar, sohbet ederdi.Kendisine \u015e\u00eax Cuma denildi\u011fini, Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131 tersten okudu\u011funu, dar\u0131\u2019ya okuyup dar\u0131y\u0131 duvara t\u0131rmand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, dinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyenler vard\u0131. Acaba neden kendisine \u015e\u00eax Cuma deniliyordu? Yaz\u0131da bu konuda tam bir a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k yok. Bu konuya da a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k getirebilirsen fena olmaz diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.Ruhu \u015fad olsun.Selamlar. Sayg\u0131lar\u2026 Mehmet Yakut08 Nisan 2021 Sevgili Mehmet,Yaz\u0131m\u0131 be\u011fenmene sevindim.Babama dinden \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f demelerinin nedeni, o g\u00fcn\u00fcn ko\u015fullar\u0131nda Ergani&#8217;de dini konulara ve dini felsefeye \u00e7ok iyi vak\u0131f olmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n dini vecibeleri yerine getirmemesi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3403],"tags":[488,485,3487,158,3488,3486],"class_list":["post-5707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plus","tag-cuma-uzulmez","tag-kumar","tag-kuran","tag-mehmet-yakut","tag-sex-cuma","tag-yazisma"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5707","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5707"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5707\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7860,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5707\/revisions\/7860"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5707"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5707"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uzulmez.site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5707"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}